I’ve been wanting to share with you a way of looking at things
that has powerfully impacted me (and therefore my family *smile*)
in the last 4-6 weeks, and I finally took a few moments now to
jot this down.
Ever encounter circumstances—in your money, health, or
relationships—where you suddenly feel, “Oh no…what am I
going to do?”
Well, the next time that happens, how about saying to yourself,
“I’m looking forward to seeing how this will unfold.”
What does that do for you?
Well, it immediately shifts your focus from only what you can
“see” right now—which might be a glaring lack of health, a
lack of money, or something troubling that’s just come up in
your circumstances or your relationships…
And this phrase,”Hmm…I’m looking forward to seeing how this
will unfold” immediately shifts your view to an “unseen” trust
and assumption that “all is well” even though you can’t see it
right now…and implies that things WILL unfold beyond what you
can see now…
unfold for good…
maybe even something much better than what you’ve been thinking
about so far…
and simply opening that door with the phrase, “I’m looking forward
to seeing how this will unfold” immediately shifts your emotional
energy state…
and that not only helps you feel better in the moment…
it also keeps you open to possibilities you might have missed had
you stayed in the “shut down” state of “Oh, no!”
Practice this with yourself this week, and let me know your own
experiences below!
Dr. Ben
P.S. I received the above idea from a wonderful woman, Sue Anne
Macgregor, who does a unique process (by phone or in person) called
holographic repatterning that has greatly blessed me at key
junctures in my business and family life over the past several
years. You can reach Sue Ann on her business line at 972-898-8833.
Let me know your own experiences with “powerful shifts in perspective” below.